Tears that melt the heart of sweet memories

Despite all the resources, glory, and status, we are restless, society is constantly sinking in the mire of anxiety. In spite of millions of efforts, the new generation is an unprecedented destination traveler, but these problems are not being solved by us. What is the reason? Today our lives are in a state of moral turmoil, human qualities have disappeared from our society, there is no such thing as a general defect that has not become our second nature. There is no evil that we do not suffer from and there is no moral evil that does not weaken our national foundations. We ourselves are suffering from these weaknesses, who is the leader who will make us aware of the horrible consequences of these destructive habits and warn us of the terrible consequences to come.

In fact, moral values ​​are the principles that decide which actions are right and which actions are wrong. Responsibility is 'honesty', loyalty and sincerity. Ethics is a branch of philosophy dedicated to the study of the behavior of individuals and ethics. Everyone should decide for themselves what is right or wrong by reflecting on ethics. What is socially correct and what is not? Where are the people who did not establish relations based on social status, prestige, status, personal interests but ideologies which were considered to be the best for the country and nation, society, morality, social and religious duty? The relationship of the members of the society with each other became stronger on every happiness, sorrow and it was a happy ritual to stand with the white-clad, compelled, helpless and needy people of our society. But then our style changed. In return, the standard became that the country, society and humanity have no basis. We have abandoned our traditions in the cycle of prejudice, status and just making money, the consequences of which are being fallen our generations in the form of destruction. It is generally believed that the task of cultivating and nurturing civilization is the sole responsibility of certain people and they have to nurture the cultural traditions and keep the old thinking in line with the new thinking.

We had a culture of great and noble qualities in which there was no distinction and no one was inferior. At first, no one did such a thing and even if someone did such a thing it was considered very unreasonable. No poor family in the society was made to feel any hardship but the command of Allah Kareem "Recognize them with their faces". Happiness is considered. But now, without realizing it, we would consider it our heritage to torment the path, the water, without hurting the heart. These people did not need to show educational credentials to prove that they were educated. Unlike today, branded clothing, shoes and purses, ie outer and outer garments, did not increase one's family prestige, but it was called neo-richness.

Then in the neighborhoods and on the streets, along with real relationships, relationships like human sympathy were also respected and lasting. There was a time when children were playing games on the streets and terraces of houses. When pickles were added to a house, it was distributed not only in the street but also in many houses in the neighborhood and it was customary to send curry to the houses in the neighborhood. Paying school fees without advertising to a poor child was considered a means of salvation, but perhaps these same things have fallen victim to Facebook, WhatsApp status and even the so-called self-esteem of poor children. Gone Whatever education they get, they feel inferior. Now I remember those days, those beautiful days, those fairs, those fairs, those villages, those hills.

In the 70's and '80s, fashion like today was common but the element of simplicity prevailed in every dignified personality and simplicity was not only a part of the dress but also a part of the lifestyle. Watch the dramas of that time, remember your homes and palaces and think if the beautiful memories want to be dusted by the hands of time. We enjoy decorating drawing rooms and well-furnished bedrooms because now you are afraid of being left behind. We are all suffering from mental illness that we need the best mobile, good car, branded clothes because without all these things you will not get any grass.

The trend of politeness and respect, humanity, empathy and brotherhood has already taken place. In earlier times, there was an atmosphere of empathy, tolerance, feeling and adoption with each other. At home, children and adults were encouraged to read books, but books, watches and pens were considered the best gifts. Stories are common, so books are now considered expensive and clothes and shoes are considered cheap. Our society is no longer poor and we ignore it as trivial, but now its dire consequences are beginning to emerge. In our lives, the chain of pause, tolerance and endurance has come to a halt. It is no longer a virtue for someone to give up their seat, to give way to a white rash, to relieve someone's compulsion and to share their sorrows, it is considered a habit against weakness and status.

Money has always been and always will be, but making it a Qibla and Ka'bah came to us some time ago and now we have become rich while humanity has begun to say goodbye. We all seem to be unable to give our children a good childhood or a good personality in earning money. In our society, it was not only the family members but also the elders of the family, neighbors, uncles, aunts, grandfathers As the character used to play his important role. Every adult on the street had the right to scold children and adults for every wrong thing and to help them to distinguish between good and bad.

Now such a wind has blown that even good and strong relationships are being questioned. Who is poor and who is rich in this age of narcissism? Who is big, who is small? What civilization, what civilization? No one has time for anyone. Of course, from the tail of humanity, societies flourish and from the tail of consciousness, goodness and goodness continue to flow in the society. Now that those values ​​have become weak and feeble, what is the use of others to come to our temperament? But now all these things are being ruined by making money.

Every day a new race forces us to run faster and faster and we are no longer able to do anything else. ۔ We are also negligent in this. We just acquit ourselves by calling it a conspiracy of others.

Believe me, the world gives examples of those who valued their civilization, culture and moral traditions, put their economic values ​​first, put their country, nation and society first. Not only the nation but also other nations have learned a lot from these people. Money is a fact but it is not all. In fact, good values ​​and hard work change lives. Let's change our lives with new thinking. Believe that there is real beauty in humanity and the good of others! And the only way to reach this destination is to incorporate the biography of Mustafa (pbuh) into one's life in a practical way.